And for me and many feeders it is the most favorite thing to meet a feedee early on, as early as possible, even before she started gaining.

And then introduce her to the whole world of feeding and make her gain with proper supervision. The realization that she is a feedee, needs to gain and become fat creates a storm of sexual arousal. Sex is required to earth this energy, or at the very least the feeders hand on her belly and the other rubbing her wet spot. Many don't know that a feedee is more aroused by feeding and the thought of growing fat than anything else. A girl like that will rediscover her sexuality, of which she maybe did not have that much before.


There are several reasons why I love to feed a still thin (or only plump) woman:
1. Sharing in her wonder, when she learns about feeding and fattening through me, in a concentrated organized manner.
2. There is nothing that looks so hot as a thinny getting the first fat on the belly, seeing her breasts grow as the once scarce fat becomes available in large supply. There is a distinct border, where thin goes into "not thin anymore". It is also a little bit the loss of innocence, because fat is sex and sex is fat: A fattening thin feedee has seen and experienced things, that she will not able to forget ever. When the first fat jiggles, the belly starts to be quite visible, the clothing don't fit anymore, the bras neither, it is all so exciting. It is not like in a fat womans "a little more of what is already there", it is a total transformation.
3. It is a nice privilege to be the first, to show her the world of fattening, what she really is and what she really really wants.
4. Fat creates a bond: She and I knows that it is my fat, that I fed her and that she has a belly now because of me (not only of course, she wants it as badly as I want). This bond is really nice, because it has been shared, every new pound of jiggly lard on her has been welcomed by me as the feeder.


Every feedee sooner or later will start gaining and gets fat: The subconsciousness will find ways to exhibit and show the feedee nature of her, tease her, and make her overeat without realizing it and sooner or later, she starts gaining and gets hot at her own fat, even though she tries to fool herself. Too many do it accidentally, without knowing, without enjoying it as much as they could.
If you know that you are going to grow fat anyway, why not do it with a purpose, share it and enjoy it to its fullest?

Many of these girls have a boyfriend, that then marginalizes them for getting fatter, and warms them about getting even larger. A love-hate relationship for fat ensues. Then, sooner or later, that boyfriend leaves her, because she got too fat and does not enjoy sex any longer, feeling ugly (seeing herself through his eyes) and unattractive.
You might be amazed, how clearly I describe this situation and you might be right now in it. If so, please don't hesitate one minute more and contact me, I will be able to help you. You need a partner that gets hot at your process, not turned off.
At the very least I will be able to explain what is going on inside you, what these feelings are and that you are not crazy! No, you are not!
You are just feeling the first waves of your true self, that you have always been meant to be a fat woman., which is so natural for many women.

So I repeat again: I AM NOT HOOKED ONLY THE VERY FAT, I ALSO LIKE THIN BECAUSE IT IS SO HOT TO MAKE IT NON-THIN. IF YOU ARE NOT ALREADY VERY FAT, YOU ARE NOT TOO THIN FOR ME, OK? ;-)

The FA part of me likes very large women, the feeder part loves growing fat, anyway it looks sexy, on a very fat woman or even better, on a thin one.

copyright Rubens_Feeder 2009

31.10.2009